We are all connected…


Question Is: Are we truly awake?   & How do we know if this life is just a dream or reality? 

In truth we don’t know, all we can do is live this life to the fullest and be the best we can be to achieve whatever it is we set out to be complete, happy and feel as whole as possible living the life we desire or working towards ‘that life’ ‘That Life’ is the bit that connects us all in this life, as each of us quest to pursue our dreams and live out our days as happy as we possibly can, we need each other in order to attain the very life experiences that bring us more of what we seek….which is more Love, Peace, Unity, Harmony, Comfort and Joy for without these elements on our lives we experience the actual opposites being Hate, War, Segregation, Sadness and Unlimited Negativities. 

If our nature is to please other people and to serve others in this world, our instincts will always lead us to situations that allow us to demonstrate just how well we can bring happiness and change people’s lives for the better…we become caregivers, creators, helpers, teachers, parents and find it easy to take on job roles that enable us to ‘please’ and ‘care’. We need each other in this world and together we make it a better place.

Everything we do for others to make life good for them, brings us happiness. So we owe it to ourselves to communicate with ‘self’, be honest and open with ourself & continue what we do well for ourselves first and foremost. This has to include reality checks and regular self health checks for mind and body!

Self Love, Self Care, Self Truth. Maintenance of health from mind, body to spirit/soul is essential and paramount to a lasting sense of wellbeing and promotes longevity of life.

It can be very easy to get caught up in world or community events, local issues or lose sight of our personal goals because bigger issues affect the status quo. It can be easy to get carried away, over drawn into social media and the hype of being instantly connected to the World Wide Web or WWW and starts from when we wake in the morning – we check the time, check our phones, latest notifications/updates/posts/likes/dislikes/followers and who is up or down thumbing us and others.

We check our diary, emails, messages, social media updates and possibly the husband, wife, partner, kids, dog, cat and other additions the  community of our heart…it goes on  through the night sometimes constant checking and re-checking of external sources of what brings us more ‘feelings or emotions’ be they good bad or ugly.

How often do we check ourselves?
Upon waking we check external beings via mobile devices and we ensure everything outside of ourselves made it through the night, that all is all right & recharged.
But what about you?
Did you check yourself?
How are you doing?
Do we check our well-being?
How is your health today?  You also need to recharge and restore yourself in order to be the best version of you, to be healthy, happy and to last as long as possible in this life. So, as we check up on each other so too must we check up on ourselves first!

I reminded myself that the world truly is in our hands and we are all connected…in one way or another!

As I sat searching for words to share with the world,  I too had to pause, look around and check myself ‘pinch if doubt’ popped into my mind and I smiled knowing that I was all right, and I hope that you are well also. For we are all one as part of the human race.

Live Good or Die Trying – Jill Blackwood

Even if it’s just through reading this post we are connected just that bit more! In truth we are all awake and connect with each other one by one as we raise the vibration of this planet.  And as we unite we are all simply connecting the dots in our pursuits of happiness, living the life we chose to live.




We danced before we were born from sperm to egg then we were formed

In the womb when beats made life and life made beats into heartbeats where rhythm and groove moved….and we grew.

We are the instruments of life!

Music played for the bodies of two who made you, from an old song or a track brand new. In time to the rhythm and the sound of each other’s heartbeat we created new life while dancing in rhythm to music that played through stereo systems…

it’s the beat of life… it’s the music of love..it’s the love of music.. we were born to dance before we knew it

Conceived from a dream or from a real reality conceived… from a moment of sensuality or high sexuality… conceived from a moment of lust or deeply rooted love or longing to resong, wanting and waiting and wanting n waiting or just conceived from simple prayer? to & from higher powers that be higher than we… as the music played the music played and we became three… Beats Move Jive Jiggle Wiggle Dip Slide Slow Grind Smooth Ride or Brukwhine…we conceived from a million dancing sperm, just 1.

Just 1 miracle bust that move by meeting 1 egg…we grew new lyrics…from this music into you, Loving, Living, Being, Dancing!

So, dance I say, dance, dance like you were born to dance from the moment you met you, dance like it’s your life, depend upon it and move to the groove of YOU…

Music BRINGS Life…thank God it bought me YOU!

So let the music of LIFE play on in US…Power To Change, Moves!

Yes, WE were born to dance before we knew…


Dedicated to the dancer in all of us & my son ‘Bionic Jedi’and Inspired from a conversation with the Beautiful Chisani aka #lettersfromme2u *Thank You ❤

Think and grow…Rich!


Think and grow rich!
Remember the golden rule?
#1 Our Health is Wealth and we need BOTH to Live Good Or Die Trying!

Our minds manifest what we focus on, I am sure you have heard this – time and time again. It is true and there is no doubt that the thoughts you have daily will find a way to manifest into your reality – with or without your permission, unless you harness, cultivate and master your mind, nurture your thoughts and grow only what you want to come true….Imagine only the stuff you want, daydream and visualise what you need to come true…write it down, make a plan or wish list.

You will start resonating what your mind thinks on most and that POWER will bring fwd your deepest thoughts….good bad or ugly!

Think Abundantly!Think and grow

Live Good or Die Trying©J.Blackwood

Change Is Essential To Life’s Growth.



People Change, Things Come, People Go…And “So What?”
Everything happens for a reason?
Yeah right!! ??
Sometimes we do not see that reason, we only see the event or situation – often becoming overwhelmed by the change in circumstances.

Change has to occur in order for there to be growth, without growth there is death – therefore Change is Essential To Life’s Growth!

So when you notice people changing, coming, going in and out of your lives – why not say “so what”
So what? Let them be. They are growing. Let Them. Do YOU. Life goes on, it has too.

We have to keep our focus on what WE are doing and WHERE we are going, without getting sucked into other peoples drama or depressions!

It can be easy to get caught up in making people stay with us or trying to force our way of life upon others. And visa versa with those who try over impose themselves, beliefs, isms, skisms and stretch pass their mark in your personal space. Well mek dem dress back asap!

Change is essential to life’s growth, we must embrace change, work with it, we must BE the change we wish to see in this world. Life is a beautiful river that flows, streams into all sorts of nooks and crannies, flowing wherever there is a pathway, even a new path will still see water!

When was the last time you done something for the first time, something you haven’t done before?

Peace, Love & Thanks for reading.
Jilly B…❤

Inspired By A Hilary


She came with a rare nervous Energy

She spoke with solid yet seasoned Authority

She taught with an exceptional Excellence

Hilary gave us more than we came for

More than we hoped to gain is what we received

A voice that had been silent inside me awoke in her presence

She humbly dilated my ego which encouraged me to share

This sharing then took me on a whole new journey….

One of discovery and disclosure…

As she grew confidence in her class

Her students confidence also grew

We shared more than we came to give

We learned more than we thought we would

We received more than we could ever imagine

The Seeds That Have Been Planted Now Grow Within Each & Every One of Us…. Including You!

Hilary, with your gift of teaching and being who you were BORN to be, through this medium – you inspire us! More than you will ever know….so please…continue to touch lives, to make that mark, be that baton of knowledged passed on so that we may all WIN!!

The world needs more of this energy!

Thank YOU!

Empowered Women

Empower Women!

Dedicated to ALL students of life and to Hilary Nightingale, My Wonderful ‘Level 2 Peer Mentoring’ Tutor!


Inspired by a Suleiman…😋

So, Your weakness is my strength!!!

So how do we meet?

So…. we agree….Somewhere in the middle

And for a moment nothing else existed

The room, noise, people, the ambience slipped away and blurred into the background of our aura


We were not there for us…but

Even time took a side seat….& There was just you

It was just me

In that moment….it was just ‘we’

And it felt like eternity

So, my strength is your weakness

We meet in the middle somewhere

We agree

How so?

I wonder how this can be….

Is he really that into me?

Do I truly tremble at your touch?

Do I see our future in your eyes?

Did I feel your heart beat under my palm?

Or is it just me reflected in the sexy glaze of your stare?

Or is it me simply seeing what I want to see?

Or is it what he whispered inside me? 😉

(((no, it did not offend me)))

Or is it me being lightheaded, giddy, fuzzy?


Today, you speak to me and I hear pure poetry

Inspite of Tragedy and after Yesterdays Celebratory

As I replay your words today and listen

You say you will create time for me

You will make time for me

Like your finest masterpiece

With persistence and will

You remind me of the only contract we make

So… I will give my Patience and Understanding

As we exchange nuggets of wisdom

And let our pearls of time form on their own

As Life….it has to go on…

While we find out which room you May sleep in

This April..during showers that are due…

Or May

Or June

Or July

I digress….

Yet remember this…

My Strength is made perfect in your weakness

And even though we both got alot going on

I have a silent wish n a sweet prayer

That somewhere in the middle

Of all of the Chaos

Somewhere we may meet and create moments

Moments that turn into memories

Just you

Just me

‘Just US’

Oh….No rose smelling wind. (please) 🙂

Ahhh…..It’s Just Poetry!